KOINOPHOBIA: the fear that you’ve lived an ordinary life  While you’re in it, life seems epic. Fiery, tenuous, and unpredictable. But when you look back over your story, or try

May 16, 2025

AMBEDO: A Momentary Trance of Emotional Clarity Sometimes when you’re alone and everything is quiet, you feel a certain placeless intensity that drifts in like a fog. It’s subtle at

May 15, 2025

OPIA: the ambiguous intensity of eye contact So much can be said in a glance. You feel such ambiguous intensity, looking someone in the eye—it’s somehow both intrusive and vulnerable.

May 14, 2025

I continue this week’s exploration of made-up works in The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows that deserve to be popularized. ALAZIA: the fear that you’re not longer able to change When

May 13, 2025

Many friends have told me about John Koenig’s Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, but it wasn’t until recently that someone gave me a copy of the book. You can get a

May 12, 2025

Mother’s Day 2023 didn’t look the way I imagined. Unusual circumstances left me alone not with my mom, not with my child. Even my husband was in the hospital that

May 11, 2025

My story is not unique. Like many people who find their way to the Modern Elder Academy, I too had a midlife crisis–or what I now call a “chrysalis,” thanks

Something that EXCITES you: passion is a great fuel for purpose Something that AGITATES you: Reed Hastings started Netflix because he was pissed off at Blockbuster Video’s late charges Something

May 9, 2025

At the time, he was very successful professionally as the president of the International Psychoanalytic Association, a lecturer at the University of Zurich, and a vibrant private practice. He was

May 8, 2025

I’ve found that some of the most transformative insights come not from pushing forward but from stepping back. Whether I’m co-hosting an MEA retreat or attending one myself, I leave

May 7, 2025

We’re so honored that Annie and her husband Neal are joining us at MEA Santa Fe in November that we dusted off this commencement address she gave 22 years ago

May 6, 2025

So, I was intrigued by this new NYT article, Mexico is Becoming a Beacon, and wanted to share it with you. Here’s the opening paragraph as well as another excerpt:

May 5, 2025