I’ve led a really amazing life.  I just wish I’d known it while it was happening! Yes, the drama and trauma of my decades of trying to figure it all

September 27, 2025

I was struck by recent essays in The Atlantic (“The Psychological Secret to Longevity”) and SuperAge (“Why Time Speeds Up as We Age and How to Slow it Down”), both

September 26, 2025

I often define wisdom as “metabolized experience mindfully shared for the common good.” That first word—metabolized—is crucial. Experience alone doesn’t automatically yield wisdom. If it did, every elder would be

September 25, 2025

Some of us swoon for a love story, others crave the adrenaline of a thriller, while a few nerd out on documentaries that crack open hidden truths. Genres aren’t just

September 24, 2025

Carl Jung called this “the tension of opposites,” and it’s at the very heart of midlife. We long for stability, yet we’re pulled toward reinvention. We want to feel young,

September 23, 2025

First of all, a huge birthday hug to MEA alum Jim Flaherty who turns 90 today and is such an inspiration for how life gets better with age.  Words shape

September 22, 2025

This next step in the journey invites us to soften our gaze and expand our awareness. What if trees, rivers, and even stones are active participants in a greater alchemy

September 21, 2025

This is the first of a two-part exploration of consciousness. What it is, what we’ve lost in how we define it, and how we might reclaim a more expansive, life-honoring

September 20, 2025

I’m a Halloween baby and will have a 65th b’day retirement party for my first hotel, The Phoenix, on that night in San Francisco (you’re welcome to RSVP). But, that’s

September 19, 2025

When I was creating boutique hotels, one of my lessons was that people in the 1980s were moving into an era that could be defined as “You are where you

September 18, 2025

Those experiences shaped me, taught me that growth often comes not from comfort, but from the radical generosity of listening to those whose journeys look nothing like ours. At MEA,

September 17, 2025

He has a new book out, The Fifth Season: Creativity in the Second Half of Life. He believes that as we age, we’re led to what the Chinese call “the fifth

September 16, 2025